http://jamesandailing.com/2006/06/30/dating-marriage/ Wed, 05 Jan 2011 06:32:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.3 http://jamesandailing.com/2006/06/30/dating-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-480 dAytimejAmes Mon, 18 Dec 2006 05:30:52 +0000 #comment-480 "That's why I believe cohabitation is flimsy," I think she was trying to explain what she believes, just like how you are trying to explain yours. Thus, according to your argument, equally valid. Why do most who do not believe in marriage think they are more "open minded"?<br /> Secondly, Its not about the paper, its a contract, an agreement, a promise. You gotta sign on something. I think all she was trying to say is "Commitment with paper is LESS flimsy then commitment without paper."<br /> Finally, this "love" you are talking about, what in the world is it? "That’s why I believe cohabitation is flimsy," I think she was trying to explain what she believes, just like how you are trying to explain yours. Thus, according to your argument, equally valid. Why do most who do not believe in marriage think they are more "open minded"?
Secondly, Its not about the paper, its a contract, an agreement, a promise. You gotta sign on something. I think all she was trying to say is "Commitment with paper is LESS flimsy then commitment without paper."
Finally, this "love" you are talking about, what in the world is it?

]]> http://jamesandailing.com/2006/06/30/dating-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-479 friendly stranger who came acros ur blog Sun, 17 Dec 2006 22:21:08 +0000 #comment-479 'cohabitation is flimsy' - if only life for everyone was as simple as yours. Open your mind to all types of experience and only then will you see that your god gave us choice and everyones choices are valid - not just yours because you chose to sign a scrap of paper. It is the love that keeps people together. Paper is the flimsiest of all materials. ‘cohabitation is flimsy’ – if only life for everyone was as simple as yours. Open your mind to all types of experience and only then will you see that your god gave us choice and everyones choices are valid – not just yours because you chose to sign a scrap of paper. It is the love that keeps people together. Paper is the flimsiest of all materials.

]]> http://jamesandailing.com/2006/06/30/dating-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-165 AiLing Fri, 30 Jun 2006 21:47:06 +0000 #comment-165 haha Judith, one of the hardest thing that james n i try to do is to stay in. Stay in the same room. Stay in there till you sort it out. Once you run into another room, the next step is to run out of the house and next is out of the relationship. But it's hard i know, sometimes we run out coz we can't stand it but always come back. Knowing that coming back is the right thing to do. God is the strength of our hearts. But it's hard to visualise, like for me to have a baby. No clue man. :) But know that when you get there, God was there before you. :) haha Judith, one of the hardest thing that james n i try to do is to stay in. Stay in the same room. Stay in there till you sort it out. Once you run into another room, the next step is to run out of the house and next is out of the relationship. But it’s hard i know, sometimes we run out coz we can’t stand it but always come back. Knowing that coming back is the right thing to do. God is the strength of our hearts. But it’s hard to visualise, like for me to have a baby. No clue man. But know that when you get there, God was there before you.

]]> http://jamesandailing.com/2006/06/30/dating-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-164 Judith Fri, 30 Jun 2006 10:54:01 +0000 #comment-164 I'm still trying ( very hard) to visualise how hard living together will be. My main plan is to escape into another room.We'll see. But certainly God is what holds it all together, even now in the planning. Am glad X shares the same views on that.<br /> So...you're really not telling who the guy is huh?:P I’m still trying ( very hard) to visualise how hard living together will be. My main plan is to escape into another room.We’ll see. But certainly God is what holds it all together, even now in the planning. Am glad X shares the same views on that.
So…you’re really not telling who the guy is huh?:P

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